“We Thought That Tragedies Like This Only Happen To Other People”

          On March 2, 1998, we received a telephone call that changed our lives forever. We were informed that our daughter Suzanne was missing from the State University of New York at Albany. Our reaction was one of disbelief and shock, leaving us confused and unable to think clearly. We know our daughter well and we were positive that she had not run away. Reluctantly, we faced the realization that we would not wake from this “bad dream.” Life would not return to normal. We began to accept the unthinkable, that harm had come to her.

          Over three years later, Suzanne’s disappearance remains a mystery and we are still faced with uncertainty and many unanswered questions. Time does not seem to heal as it does with other types of losses. The emotional highs and lows are not as pronounced, but it is no less difficult for us move ahead and develop hope for the future.

          Families with missing loved ones can provide invaluable understanding, support, and guidance for each other. Missing Person’s Day, April 6, 2002, will provide resources to help in rebuilding lives.

Doug and Mary Lyall
Parents of Suzanne